Usually people cannot grasp how to be happy all the time when they take life too seriously. Such people always suffer from some kind of drama because they are too emotionally invested in their thoughts and their thoughts mis-create because such people lack the basic understanding of the human mind power.
When you truly understand that your thoughts create your world, you stop getting so emotional because you know that you are in control of your life – not anyone else. Worrying and stress stop and so better manifestations follow naturally.
Where you are is exactly where you deserve to be. Change your thinking and your life will change. When you understand that you create your world, you will be more careful about the paths you let your mind wonder.
Further tips on how to be positive all the time
Take life lightly. Your life is a beautiful gift that you were given, but it’s not the ultimate gift. The ultimate gift is your essence, your soul. Don’t zoom into the arguments or disasters of life because that will be the only things that you see. Be aware of what’s happening around you rather than being focused on one aspect of a situation and never forget that your life is not the be all and end all.
Don’t react, respond instead. When something negative happens to you, instead of reacting like you usually do, choose to respond. This means you will need to take a step back and assess the situation for what it is and then think of how to respond to it most beneficially.
Share. Sharing what you have with others and giving in general naturally makes you happy. If you make sharing and giving your habit, your positivity will greatly increase.
Be grateful. Some people get so unhappy about some aspect of their lives that they completely miss out the big picture. Start being grateful for what you have and the easiest way to do this is to think about the people in poor countries and realise how comfortably we live compared to a large part of the world.
Have a compelling vision of your future. There is a saying that people without a vision perish – and that’s really true. If you have no vision, you will have no purpose. You will live without inspiration and motivation which will result in unhappiness. To become positive you have to create a compelling vision of the future and take action to achieve it.
Shut out external influences. If you listen to the news and negative people, you will sooner or later become negative yourself. To avoid that, eliminate as much negative influences from your life as possible. When you do, you will get your power back and that will make you more positive.
Listen to your favorite music. Music can instantly change your mood, so if you feel down, listen to the music that you like. Music changes your vibration, so it can quickly change the way you feel.
Exercise. People who exercise are more positive than those who don’t. Regular exercise gives you more confidence in yourself therefore you feel more empowered, which leads to more happiness.
Listen to inspirational CDs/read inspirational books. When I was very unhappy in the past, I started reading all kinds of self-help books and listening to inspirational CDs and they took me out of my negative state. Inspirational materials can empower you and, if you listen to/read them regularly, make you much more positive.
Keep your balance. People who lack balance in any area of their lives are not happy. So you should keep emotional balance, the balance in relationships and your health. For example, control your emotions and thoughts, don’t eat too much and don’t overwork or be too lazy.
This way of thinking and the habits mentioned in this article will teach you how to be positive all the time. Make a list of these tips and apply them in your life as soon as possible.